Category: Counseling

Letting go, without giving up on those you love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

Letting go, without giving up on those you love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

Letting someone go, simply means that you relinquish your grip or hold, while setting them free to move and live as they insist. Giving up, on the other hand, means to abandon, make a mental or verbal declaration that the person or situation is incurable,  insolvent, or hopeless. The two are definitely very different. So how do you put these … Continue reading Letting go, without giving up on those you love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

These 6 “Life Virtues” are off limits!

These 6 “Life Virtues” are off limits!

Your Life embodies who you are, and is the most important asset that you will ever have. Your Life should be accompanied by some very essential virtues which will fortify you, and will help to determine how your life will proceed. Without these 6 Life Virtues, you will be ineffective, not only to yourself, but to … Continue reading These 6 “Life Virtues” are off limits!

Letting Go, Without Giving Up on Those You Love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

Letting Go, Without Giving Up on Those You Love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

Letting someone go, simply means that you relinquish your grip or hold, while setting them free to move and live as they insist. Giving up, on the other hand, means to abandon, make a mental or verbal declaration that the person or situation is incurable,  insolvent, or hopeless. Therefore, the two are definitely very different. So how do you put … Continue reading Letting Go, Without Giving Up on Those You Love. (Powerful & Helpful Tips!)

Tips on dealing with a Headless Boss from Tarrytown.

Tips on dealing with a Headless Boss from Tarrytown.

Just like the story of the "Fictional Headless Horseman" from Tarrytown, the Headless Boss emerges from the grave, and never finds his head. He has been seen however holding what appears to be his head (or a pumpkin like figure in his hands at times). Of course in this story, the Headless Boss actually loses … Continue reading Tips on dealing with a Headless Boss from Tarrytown.

6 ways to be nice to mean people.

6 ways to be nice to mean people.

  Be cordial, with no expectation. Don’t modify your behavior just because they are rude, be nice! When greeting them, don’t expect a response. Make it a point to offer to help when you can. Don’t spend time worrying about their behavior, it’s toxic. Just be nice. Don't let them live rent free in your head.  Keep … Continue reading 6 ways to be nice to mean people.

Am I Racist?  Probably! (a must read)

Am I Racist? Probably! (a must read)

Well…. probably, at least according to the definition. Let’s look at one of the official ones. Racism: The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races. Let me share a very real … Continue reading Am I Racist? Probably! (a must read)

Am I late to my life? (1 min read)

Am I late to my life? (1 min read)

Feeling like life has passed you by?  Do you think a lot about how much time has been lost, what you wish that you would have done differently, while constantly counting the years that were wasted?  No worries, you are among many others who spend countless hours a week regretting their past life decisions, or better yet, adding them up constantly, while experiencing … Continue reading Am I late to my life? (1 min read)